There is a thought-provoking article in the New York Times earlier this month about happiness and where we derive it from.  Ironically, the subject has not been studied by academia until now.  Perhaps the reality of a recession that seems to never end, and the resulting life changes that will never revert has caused us all to reconsider what makes us happy.

At one extreme, a couple interviewed in the article completely upended their life, choosing a 400 square foot home and only 100 personal items each in order to find happiness.  For most of us, we've learned to live with less stuff and to focus more on the people in our lives and the simple pleasures that come from spending time with them.  Our purchases, when we make them, revolve around things we can use to find fun close to home.  Or, we save for a special vacation that brings us as much joy in the planning process as the event itself.  I know my family went to New York this spring break and my daughter still talks about it as the best trip of her life, and one she'll never forget.  Hearing her say that brings me more joy than seeing her face light up (momentarily) when opening a gift at Christmas or on her birthday.

As you get ready for this long holiday weekend, think about what you can DO vs. what you can BUY.  And I bet when Tuesday comes, you'll be happier thinking about your experiences than your purchases.