Losing more than sleep

Lately, I've found myself struggling to focus for any length of time.  I get bored or distracted easily.  And I feel like I am not making much progress on anything.  Which makes me feel even worse.  What's going on?

For one, I'm not sleeping well, or at least as well or as long as I should.  That's because my dog has taken up residence in my bed.  And when I say "take up", I mean take up my whole side of the bed.  And she likes to get right up close to me, not her daddy.  And her body must generate 1000 watts of heat, causing me to wake up feeling like I'm having a hot flash (which is a whole other story) even though I know I'm not.

According to experts, we need between 8 and 9 hours of sleep a day.  That sleep should come in 90-minute cycles so we get the full effect of deep or dream sleep. That is the most restorative sleep we get.  When we don't get this amount of sleep, we lose mental focus and clarity.  Our emotional health suffers.  

For another, I'm trying to do many different things, and often find I forget to take breaks.  That's a problem, too. In his new book, "The Way We're Working Isn't Working",  Tony Schwartz says we should work in 90-minute pulses and take breaks in between.  And he is living proof it makes a difference.  His last book took more than a year to write even though he wrote from 12-14 hours a day.  His latest literacy achievement took only 6 months.  Now, that's impressive.

I'm going to try and think and work and sleep in 90-minute intervals and see if I feel better.  Let me know if you try it and how it works for you.

 

 

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Laura Mae wrote re: Losing more than sleep
on 28 Jul 2010 6:20 PM

I think it's just part of being a woman...multi-tasking is just what we're wired to do.  And our brains are constantly shuffling around everything on our many lists!  My best suggestion is to keep a pad in your purse and by your nightstand...when you can empty your brain it helps lessen the stress.

And oh how I wish I had just 90 minutes of uninterrupted time!  

Elizabeth wrote re: Losing more than sleep
on 28 Jul 2010 3:39 PM

I feel you on this one!  We have so many things up in the air right now that I feel like I'm constantly jumping from one thought to another.  My husband and I come home from work and have 101 things to do until we need to go to bed.  Then, we can't sleep because we're thinking about what we need to do next. AH! For some reason, the more I have going on at one time, the more I notice what else I need to/should be doing.

Usually if I make a list, I will get things done.  But honestly...I keep finding lists with 2 or 3 things crossed off on them lately. Time for a breather!

I like the idea of working and thinking in 90 minute intervals.  I could make myself focus on just one thing, take a break and move on to the next.  I will give this a try and see how it goes. Not sure my ADD tendencies will allow it, but I'll try :)

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