Just last week someone got a hold of my credit card number and security code and charged up a storm at Best Buy. My credit card company called me immediately because a red flag went off since I was in Bowling Green using my card and then an hour later the Best Buy charge came through but in Oakland, CA. In addition to that, a month ago my debit card was stolen. I didn't even realize it until Bank of America sent me a new card and a letter in the mail. Thankfully banks and credit card companies seem to be on top of these problems.

But to answer your question, my "new sense of normal" is learning to take it easy now that I am pregnant. I'm so used to going non stop, but now I am learning to listen to my body and slow down. It's been a hard adjustment for me, but will be so worth it in the end. When my baby arrives, things will be busier than ever especially since I plan to return to work.

In addition to slowing down, I've realized that my life is changing. I guess I was in denial before but it hit me when one of my best friends sent an email with her plans to spend the weekend in Miami partying for her 30th birthday with all our closest friends. I cried my eyes out for 30 minutes after I read the email because her birthday party extravaganza is the weekend my baby is due.  I am super excited about my baby and wouldn't change things for the world and I'm super excited for her and her plans but I can't help but feel left out while everyone is having fun. Having a baby is the most wonderful journey, but quite an adjustment.

I've had my purse stolen too...literally right out from under my desk. It leaves you angry, scared and distrustful. But I'm also more aware of my surroundings and those around me, which is good. Maybe it's the wake-up call I needed to prevent something really bad from happening to me in the future.

Sorry you had go through this.

I was so sorry to hear about your car burglary, Lisa. I remember, back in 2001, I was pick-pocketed twice within two weeks. It felt horrible. Both times, the thief took my wallet including important ID and cash. To recover from the incident(s) was a hassle, but I know it could have been much worse.

To answer your question about having a new sense of normal, I hate to compare time management to a car burglary, but my new sense of normal has to do with "do more with less." Interestingly, the first time I heard this phrase was back in 2001, right after 9/11. After my company downsized, my boss told me to "do more with less." Not only because of my hectic schedule, but also because of the current economy, I would think this phrase also applies to today.

My more recent need to "do more with less" is self-inflicted as I have added the task of earning a graduate degree on top of an already busy schedule. Although my sweet husband has gently reminded me that my new schedule is self-inflicted, I can't help but just wish for one day off from both work and school. And, if I play my cards right (i.e. work ahead), I should be able to fulfill that dream next weekend, when I go to visit my nieces in PA. I can't wait.

I would think that a lot of new moms would also have a fairly significant "new sense of normal." I would love to hear more about that...